Kissing in the Tdot
There are 131 days left until my wedding day and I’ve had a couple ideas, notions, things just swooshing around up there. Ive had encounters with interesting people so i decided to make a list. Here goes.
What not to do when someone you know is getting married:
– Don’t assume that you are invited. If you are invited the bride or groom, will hint at it. They may even straight out say it before you get your invitation. But if say the Bride hasn’t spoken to you in 4 years, and sees you randomly one day and tells you shes’s getting married, and you say “Ill make sure me and my date have that day off”. Well that just makes things all kinds of awkward.
- Don’t assume you will get a Plus One. Weddings are expensive. Each person costs anywhere between 85-150 + dollars depending on your wedding. So sometimes the invitation is for you alone (particularly if you are going to know other people at the wedding as well).
- Don’t impose your opinions on what you think a wedding should be. When you get married you will get to do it your way, but otherwise the fact that you think cupcakes aren’t a “real” wedding cake. Well keep that to yourself. (Unless specifically asked).
I feel soooooo much better now ! Ok pants rant over. For now.
Im sure that I will have more of these! But for now how about you write some?! No really. See I love this blog (my interval between some posts is in no way reflective of my enjoyment of blogging).
As much as I love it, what I really like is just talking to people about this stuff. I want to know if I’m being crazy or it really just is the rest of the world. I want to know what you think and why? Maybe it will help me too. So write your comments. Those that are already married, maybe there are some wedding day “dont’s” you wanna share???
xoxo
P.S. – Someone’s birthday is coming up in 4 days. Ahem.
Exciteedd!!! NYC here I come!
by jany
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